īŧ he considers how to delineate this for a long moment, setting aside the last third of the cake for later with a few additional perfunctory scrapes of his fork to clean the cream from the plate. īŧ
Let's take spanking for example. There's a difference between me putting you over my knee and saying you've been naughty īŧ a playful lift of his eyebrows īŧ versus, hell — having you dress in a uniform and have a room set up like a class, me acting like a teacher that's pissed off you cheated on a test. The second one might involve something like a spanking, making you stand naked for 'examination', or writing lines on the chalkboard or whatever else we agree on because it makes it more immersive, easy to kinda put yourself into a different mindset. The first one's more heat of the moment kinky — the second one has a set-up, a fully roleplayed scenario, and you try not to 'break character' so to speak.
īŧ he reaches for sasuke, just sort of neatly grabbing him and pulling him astride his hips as he settles back down in his post-cake life, oop. īŧ
What I meant here was more — do you want me to lean into that sorta spur of the moment kinky talk? I think a full-on set-up for a scene that leans into rape-play would require a lot more discussion first, clear boundaries and limits and a set-up that makes it pretty different from how we normally have sex. I wouldn't do it here, for instance — my room or yours. That sort of thing needs to be really clearly disparate. Does that make sense?
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Date: 2024-02-28 03:48 pm (UTC)īŧ he considers how to delineate this for a long moment, setting aside the last third of the cake for later with a few additional perfunctory scrapes of his fork to clean the cream from the plate. īŧ
Let's take spanking for example. There's a difference between me putting you over my knee and saying you've been naughty īŧ a playful lift of his eyebrows īŧ versus, hell — having you dress in a uniform and have a room set up like a class, me acting like a teacher that's pissed off you cheated on a test. The second one might involve something like a spanking, making you stand naked for 'examination', or writing lines on the chalkboard or whatever else we agree on because it makes it more immersive, easy to kinda put yourself into a different mindset. The first one's more heat of the moment kinky — the second one has a set-up, a fully roleplayed scenario, and you try not to 'break character' so to speak.
īŧ he reaches for sasuke, just sort of neatly grabbing him and pulling him astride his hips as he settles back down in his post-cake life, oop. īŧ
What I meant here was more — do you want me to lean into that sorta spur of the moment kinky talk? I think a full-on set-up for a scene that leans into rape-play would require a lot more discussion first, clear boundaries and limits and a set-up that makes it pretty different from how we normally have sex. I wouldn't do it here, for instance — my room or yours. That sort of thing needs to be really clearly disparate. Does that make sense?