īŧ he tugs sasuke a little more tightly in against him so that the boy doesn't have to suffer the possibility of looking at him while he explains this. but he does card his fingers through his hair, and in a soft murmur: īŧ
So, for the record — the biological imperative and drive of having sex is pretty deeply engrained in the human psyche as being for the purpose of procreation. Like, obviously that is not the only reason, and it's totally normal not to want to associate sex with the act of procreation, but for some people that association is a turn-on whether or not actual pregnancy is the aim of sex itself. Don't get me wrong, some people have a fetish for actual pregnant bodies — I don't get horny looking at a random pregnant person, but if it's somebody I've knocked up, yeah, that gets me going. Like... ah, shit. īŧ he has one hand resting against sasuke's shoulder, it's raised and lowered in a bit of an approximation of a shrug. īŧ For me it's like... a further step of that sense of ownership and possession. I have sex with someone and come in them, it's like marking territory. But if I knock 'em up, that's visible, tangible evidence that tells others — that's mine. That's my person, I'm going to look after them, it makes me feel settled and creates this deep, entrenched sense of belonging and connection that goes both ways. Waking up next to someone, right?
īŧ a callback to that first fantasy he'd divulged. just — the act of having someone. despite everything, he's still a man whose first and most important memory is of a woman he loved and the child they had together balanced on her hip, silhouetted by the sun. īŧ
As far as the kink goes, it's not limited to just men and women in a sexual situation. It's really common in gay communities too — it's literally a whole subset of pornography on Earth. Biological men aren't out here thinking they can get pregnant, that part isn't physically possible yet on most worlds and requires some sort of physical modification on the ones where it is, but the thought can evoke some powerful feelings on the giving or receiving side because of how it ties in with that sense of possession and belonging and promise. For some men it's kinda about humiliation and degradation and it usually comes from misogyny, they want to be treated the way they perceive women as being treated but don't necessarily want to be a woman, you know? For others it's about imagining the act of creating life, sheltering it in their body and then having a child that represents the love or commitment to their partner. It doesn't have to be a gender identity thing, but it can align with it if there are other psychological signs. With me so far?
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Date: 2024-03-05 02:03 am (UTC)īŧ he tugs sasuke a little more tightly in against him so that the boy doesn't have to suffer the possibility of looking at him while he explains this. but he does card his fingers through his hair, and in a soft murmur: īŧ
So, for the record — the biological imperative and drive of having sex is pretty deeply engrained in the human psyche as being for the purpose of procreation. Like, obviously that is not the only reason, and it's totally normal not to want to associate sex with the act of procreation, but for some people that association is a turn-on whether or not actual pregnancy is the aim of sex itself. Don't get me wrong, some people have a fetish for actual pregnant bodies — I don't get horny looking at a random pregnant person, but if it's somebody I've knocked up, yeah, that gets me going. Like... ah, shit. īŧ he has one hand resting against sasuke's shoulder, it's raised and lowered in a bit of an approximation of a shrug. īŧ For me it's like... a further step of that sense of ownership and possession. I have sex with someone and come in them, it's like marking territory. But if I knock 'em up, that's visible, tangible evidence that tells others — that's mine. That's my person, I'm going to look after them, it makes me feel settled and creates this deep, entrenched sense of belonging and connection that goes both ways. Waking up next to someone, right?
īŧ a callback to that first fantasy he'd divulged. just — the act of having someone. despite everything, he's still a man whose first and most important memory is of a woman he loved and the child they had together balanced on her hip, silhouetted by the sun. īŧ
As far as the kink goes, it's not limited to just men and women in a sexual situation. It's really common in gay communities too — it's literally a whole subset of pornography on Earth. Biological men aren't out here thinking they can get pregnant, that part isn't physically possible yet on most worlds and requires some sort of physical modification on the ones where it is, but the thought can evoke some powerful feelings on the giving or receiving side because of how it ties in with that sense of possession and belonging and promise. For some men it's kinda about humiliation and degradation and it usually comes from misogyny, they want to be treated the way they perceive women as being treated but don't necessarily want to be a woman, you know? For others it's about imagining the act of creating life, sheltering it in their body and then having a child that represents the love or commitment to their partner. It doesn't have to be a gender identity thing, but it can align with it if there are other psychological signs. With me so far?